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I am sure in today's society we have all heard the word narcissist, its thrown around when describing someone's personality or a behavior trait. As a woman in my 30's a lot of my friend group is dating or married including myself, in our search to be ready for the one God has for us we have run into a narcissist or 2 along the way. You know the scenario; everything is amazing at the beginning of the relationship, you're madly in love and feel as if you know everything there is to know about each other. You are absolutely on top of the world and there is nothing that can knock you down and no one can tell you to slow your roll with this guy or girl. He or she tells you everything you have ever wanted someone to say to you, they have to be the one right? Well chances are if it seems like perfection wrapped in that pretty 6'5 bow you are being love-bombed. Let's fast forward 6 months and maybe even a year into the relationship, things have changed right? All the sudden you can do nothing right, everything has turned into a fight and you feel crazy. Does any of this sound familiar? My friend this is narcissism. Narcissism by definition is " having an excessive or erotic interest in oneself and one's physical appearance" in layman's terms they think they are God's gift to the world! Statistically there are more men who have this personality (sorry guys). If you still aren't sure if this is who you're dealing with because often you don't know until you are deeply submerged in this type of relationship, let me give you some signs: